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1. Buli..selalu berlaku di sekoalh..pelik tapi benar..siapa yang eeeooookkkkk in this actual case? Perhaps, I am..Aiiishhh....or aiiiigggggooooo as Cik Don always says..

2. Being pregnant, I indulge in the luxury of shopping..I bought lots of new clothes for myself..and not to forget some used ones which are definitely still in tact..Budget? Just for the mama? I dare not say..

3. Baby's DHA will be finished tomorrow..Need help to restock it..the price per bottle is RM80..But, I pray it would make the baby smarter and brighter as ever...REALLY need extra helping hand to buy this..

4. Resah and Bingung..I want something that I might never have..Not that I would not, it is just I could not..Goshhhh...things we have to sacrifise..

5. I need a vaca..yes, that is another thing I would not be able to do in a short time..Gosh..

Thank you my blog for listening..

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Yesterday was Mother's Day..Unfortunately, it was also the most boring day I have ever felt..There was no celebration. no cakes..no candles..I don't know why but I felt it was such a waste of a great day..

I love celebration..Since I am a family person, I love to spend time with my family..Living far away from them makes me feel boring and hopeless..Like I am missing a major part of my heart..There are laughters that I miss..the jokes that I wish I was there to witness the funny moments..

What I know best is my family is a great environment to raise a child..The support system of motherhood is always there; my lovely aunts are always willing to take care of their nephews and nieces without the need to ask for their help.I know how tentative my mom would be to her grandchild.My child would also has playmates in the form of my cousins and nephews who are always up for "Persembahan! Persembahan! Persembahan!"..Putting up a show to humour the grown ups are the best moments I could always relive..Even Yaya who always had a hard time excreting exclaimed "Yaya berak tek" could be a source of laughter because she is sooooo proud of her excretion..What could we do but to tell Yaya she has done a good job and should eat more fruits to ease her stomach????

Exactly my point..the environment is stress free for a child to grow up..After all, what every parent wants is to raise a child in a healthy unproblematic environment..

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Pedoman Buwat Diriku

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Menurut Imam an-Nawawi bahawa hak-hak yang wajib terhadap isteri itu tujuh perkara iaitu;
i. Makanan.
ii. Bahan-bahan seperti rempah-ratus (bawang, minyak masak, garam, gula, asam termasuk lauk-pauk dan sebagainya).
iii. Pembantu bagi isteri yang kebiasaannya mempunyai pembantu.
iv. Pakaian.
v. Alat-alat pembersih badan dan pencuci pakaian, sikat dan sebagainya.
vi. Perkakas-perkakas rumah seperti perkakas bilik air, perkakas tidor dan sebagainya dan yang terakhir ialah tempat tinggal (rumah). (an-Nawawi.450-461)

- like no 3 tue -

Seorang suami yang baik akan sentiasa menghormati dan melayani isteri dengan baik dan bersabar dengan tingkah laku isterinya yang mungkin tidak disukainya. Firman Allah:
﴿نهورِشاعو ِفورعمْلاِب نِإَف نهومتهِرَك سعَفى نَأ ْاوهرْكت اًئيش َلعجيو هّللا ِهيِف اريخ ايرِثَك ﴾
Ertinya: ...”dan bergaullah dengan mereka secara patut (makruf), kemudian bila kamu tidak menyukai mereka (maka bersabarlah) kerana mungkin kamu tidak menykai sesuatu padahal Allah menjadikan padanya kebaikan yang banyak”
Jika suami tidak menyenangi salah satu sifat isterinya hal tersebut tidak boleh dijadikan alasan untuk berlaku kasar kepada isterinya, bahkan suami hendaklah berpandangan adil dengan melihat sifat-sifat isterinya yang disenangi sehingga dapat mendorong dirinya untuk tidak berlaku kasar dalam menghadapi perangai isterinya.

wahai saudaraku, aku berdiam ketika isteriku meleteriku kerana isteriku telah menunaikan segala haknya ke atasku, dialah yang memasakkan untukku, membuat roti untukku, membasuh segala bajuku dan menyusukan kesemua anak-anakku, sedangkkan kesemua itu bukanlah perkara yang wajib dilakukannya. Apabila aku ingat kembali kesemuanya itu aku tidak memarahinya kerana meleteriku. Berkata lelaki itu: “begitu jugalah perihal isteriku”. Jawab Umar: “ingatlah segala jasanya padamu, sesungguhnya keadaan itu hanyalah sementara”. (Khalid Abdul Rahman al-cAk.1997.178).

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